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Rabbi Shoshana's Blog
What is Equalizing? And what's the difference between equalizing and abuse?
Equalizing refers to a PDAer exerting power, control, or status in order to regain a sense of nervous system safety after a perceived loss of control or social equality/status. For some PDAers it is more disabling than demand avoidance. (I'm one of those people!)
Dec 4, 202511 min read
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